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Learning how tThis article recaps a recent episode of the Engaging Personalities podcast, hosted by Anders Boulanger. Listen to the full episode ‘The Platinum Rule’.
What if there was a better way to communicate with your boss or colleagues? Imagine a workplace where everyone knew exactly how to communicate with one another — where every interaction felt meaningful, every meeting was productive, and every team member felt understood. Sounds like a dream, right? But what if it could be a reality?
Recently, Happy cofounder and CEO James Lawrence shared his insights on the "Engaging Personalities" podcast, diving deep into this topic. James highlighted a powerful yet simple idea: the way we communicate with others should not be a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, it should be tailored to each person's unique style, needs, and preferences. This is where the magic happens—and where tools like Happy come into play.
Here are the top five takeaways from James' conversation, revealing how we can all learn to communicate better and build stronger, more effective relationships at work.
1. Understand Communication Styles
Have you ever felt like you're talking to a wall in a meeting? Or perhaps you've struggled to get your point across to a manager who just doesn't seem to "get it"? You're not alone. One of the core themes James discussed was the importance of understanding different communication styles. Everyone has their way of processing information and engaging in conversation, so it's crucial to know how your colleagues prefer to communicate.
James emphasized that Happy leverages the behavioral science of the DISC framework to provide personalized coaching to help team members understand how their colleagues like to communicate. For example, some people may be big-picture thinkers who thrive on brainstorming and creative discussion, while others may need detailed data and analysis to feel comfortable making decisions. By learning these preferences, we can adjust our approach — ensuring our communication is more effective and well-received.
2. Move Beyond One-Size-Fits-All Advice
We've all been given generic advice like "just be yourself" or "communicate clearly" — but how often does that really help? James pointed out that generic advice often falls flat because it doesn't consider the unique dynamics of individual relationships. Instead, he suggested a more nuanced approach: tailor your communication to fit the person you're speaking to.
Imagine you're preparing for a meeting with your manager, Laura. If Laura is detail-oriented and data-driven, coming prepared with concrete numbers and a thorough plan will make your proposal more compelling. On the other hand, if your manager thrives on big ideas and vision, you might want to start with the broader picture before diving into the details. Considering these differences makes your communication more meaningful and far more effective.
3. Promote Continuous Learning in Real-Time
James stressed the importance of continuous, real-time learning in the workplace. Many traditional training methods are effective only in the short term; they often lack the reinforcement needed for long-term change. Happy addresses this gap by offering on-the-go coaching, seamlessly integrating with tools like Slack and Microsoft Teams. This means that employees get real-time nudges and coaching tips exactly when needed — during meetings, before a presentation, or when engaging with their team.
This continuous learning model ensures that strategies for effective communication aren't just taught once and forgotten but are reinforced consistently over time. It's about creating lasting change — moving beyond the classroom and embedding learning directly into the flow of work.
4. Facilitate Bi-Directional Understanding
One of the most compelling parts of James' discussion was the idea of bi-directional understanding. We often think about how employees need to understand their managers, but James highlighted the importance of managers understanding their employees just as well. Happy's platform provides insights to both sides, promoting mutual understanding and respect.
For instance, if an employee is naturally more reserved, Happy might suggest that their manager create a more welcoming environment for them to share ideas — perhaps starting with one-on-one discussions rather than large group meetings. Meanwhile, the same platform can guide the employee on approaching their more outspoken manager with thoughtful preparation. By creating a two-way street of understanding, Happy helps foster a culture where everyone feels valued and heard.
5. Support Meaningful Change at Scale
How do you create meaningful change in a team of 10, a department of 100, or even a global organization of 40,000? James underscored that Happy's platform is designed to work at any scale, from small teams to massive corporations. The key lies in applying behavioral science in a way that is both accessible and actionable.
Using a simple five-minute assessment, Happy quickly identifies how each person in the organization likes to work and communicate. The platform then delivers personalized coaching based on these insights, all AI-powered. Every team member, from entry-level employees to top executives, receives tailored coaching tips and tools to improve their work relationships and performance.
The result? Scalable, meaningful change that enhances communication, collaboration, and engagement across the entire organization. And while no software can replace the nuances of human interaction, Happy acts as a powerful tool that rides "shotgun" with you, providing the support and guidance you need every step of the way.
A Better Way to Communicate and Connect
At its core, James Lawrence's message on the "Engaging Personalities" podcast was clear: there is a better way to communicate with your boss or colleagues. By understanding individual communication styles, moving beyond generic advice, promoting continuous learning, fostering mutual understanding, and supporting change at scale, we can all contribute to a happier, more connected workplace.
Happy offers a practical way to achieve this vision — but it starts with each of us. Let's commit to recognizing our role in shaping a positive workplace culture and actively engaging in strategies that promote personal growth and professional fulfillment. Together, we can create a work environment where everyone feels valued, heard, and motivated to bring their best selves to the table daily.
After all, isn't that the kind of workplace we all deserve?
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- 1. Understand Communication Styles
- 2. Move Beyond One-Size-Fits-All Advice
- 3. Promote Continuous Learning in Real-Time
- 4. Facilitate Bi-Directional Understanding
- 5. Support Meaningful Change at Scale
- A Better Way to Communicate and Connect
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